Sunday, December 24, 2006

The Joys Of Self-Pleasure!


Manually pleasuring yourself should be as natural as sex itself. And, while many people are embarrassed by it, you really shouldn't be. O.k., maybe you don't want to broadcast it to your neighbors, friends, and family, but between you and your lover it doesn't have to be a secret. Masturbation actually does serve a purpose. Besides your own enjoyment, it also teaches you what feels good, and where it feels good. It teaches you how to relax during a sexual encounter in order to have better or more orgasms. These lessons you learn can then be verbalized to your lover during sex for an even better sexual experience. Simply put, you've learned where it feels good when you do it; now tell him so he can make you feel good.

Remember that pleasuring yourself is not about how many times you come to an orgasm. Or even whether you orgasm at all. It's about pleasing yourself, making you feel good like no one else can. While orgasms are great, they really just indicate the highest point of pleasure during sexual arousal. There are many, many points in between that are immensely pleasurable. There is nothing wrong with you if you do not have an orgasm.

Concentrate on how good you can make yourself feel. Generally over time, you will learn what and where feels best and how to bring yourself to orgasm. But don't let that be the focus of masturbation, just enjoys the feelings.
Try arranging some alone time.

Go somewhere you won't be bothered. Make sure you have some time available to you so you can relax and enjoy yourself. If you can, lock the door so you won't be disturbed, if not make sure you request that this time be your alone time.

Having a family can make alone time hard to get, try requesting bath time once per week. This will be your alone time to relax and get away from the every day stresses. If you're new to pleasuring yourself, or just looking to get more out of it try creating some ambience. Bring a cassette or cd player with you to listen to soft music.

Purchase a few scented candles. The fragrance lavender is known for its relaxation properties. Then relax and enjoy your time alone with yourself. Enjoy the soft music, and the scent and glow of the candles. Don't rush, start off slow and easy. You know where to touch to make you feel good, don't be embarrassed, just go with it.


Enjoy! your life never depend others!

The Top 5 Sexy Secrets for a sensual and exciting sex life

  1. Know how your body responds and what pleases it
    tell him what you like sexually (in bed an out)
  2. Masturbate, alone and with him (let him watch you masturbate)
    learn about the G-spot and female ejaculation
    touch and kiss often.
  3. Daily make lovemaking a high priority
    be noisy and sexually enthusiastic
    thank him for your orgasms
    let him hear your appreciation.
  4. Compliment his manhood
    always be nice and supportive
    inspire him with your beauty, femininity and sexiness.
  5. Have him take you out to show off your beauty, femininity and sexiness to the world
    perhaps let go of your sexual "taboos"
    best: Be mutually in love

The Female Erogenous Zone

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"What is the best exercise I can do for my butt?"

A question I am frequently asked by females is, "What is the best exercise I can do for my butt?" In my opinion, there is nothing better you can do for your butt than lunges. They target your glutes, hamstrings and quads, and can easily be modified for beginners to advanced exercisers.
If lunges are new for you, begin with a reverse lunge. Start with your feet together. Step back with your left leg. Bend both knees. The right shin should remain a straight line with the right ankle. The left knee should go straight down and almost touch the floor. Press through the right heel as you come up and bring feet back together. Now repeat with the other leg. Perform 12 repetitions per leg, and work up to 3 sets per workout. Feel free to hold on to something sturdy for support if you need to at first. Then, as you get stronger and more stable, you can do these lunges without the extra support. Try adding dumbbells at your side or a barbell across your shoulders for an increased challenge.
As you get stronger and want more of a challenge, you can progress to a walking lunge. These require more stability, strength and balance than reverse lunges. Start with your feet together. Place your hands on your hips or by your sides if you are holding dumbbells. Step forward with a large step and bend both knees. Your front shin should remain a straight line with your ankle. Your back knee should almost touch the floor. As you are pushing up and at the top of your lunge, lunge forward with the other leg, repeating the same movement. Continue with this sequence, alternating from one leg to the other until you have finished 12 reps per leg.

For me the greatest exercise is....You should Hump ur gal friend every single day.Then u will have a great Butt.

MEANING OF LOVE

If you love some one because you think that he or she is really gorgeous ... then it's not love ... IT'S ~* Infatuation *~......
If you love some one because you think that you shouldn't leave him because others think that you shouldn't ... then it's not love .. IT'S ~*Compromise *~.......
If you love some one because you have been kissed by him ... then it's not love .. IT'S
~* Inferiority complex*~......
If you love some one because you cannot leave him thinking that it would hurt his feelings .. then it's not love .. IT'S ~*Charity*~....
If you love some one because you share every thing with him ... then it's not love... IT'S
~*Friendship*~...
But if you feel the pain of the other person more than him even when he is stable and you cry for him ... that's ~*LOVE*~
If you get attracted to other people but stay with him without any regrets... that's ~*LOVE*~
If you let him go knowing that he has to go but he doesn't want to ... that's ~*LOVE*~
*§omewhereThere'§§omeone Who Dream§ Of Your §mile, And Find§ In Your Pre§ence That Life I§ Worth While, §o When You Are Lonely, Remember It'§ True:
§omebody, §omewhere Is Thinking Of You*

How to Eat a Woman's Vagina


This article is for members who want learn how to properly eat a woman's vagina, or who've heard that it might not be all that bad to put their face down there, and for women who want to get their man to eat them period, improvement in performance can come later.We are not experts. Simply women who knows what we like, and has had all too many experiences with men who didn't seem to have the vaguest idea what they were doing between her legs.Straight or Lesbian, eating pussy an art.Eating a woman's vagina is about the most wonderful thing you can do for her. It makes her feel loved, admired, sexy, and of course it makes her cum like crazy.


Many women prefer it to intercourse, and for most, it's the easiest way to cum with a man. You may have the littlest cock on the planet, but if you give great head, you'll be appreciated as a fabulous lover. Yes, it's that important. Besides, lots of women expect it these days so you might as well get to know what you're doing. Studies show that 90 percent of married couples under 25 give head and for couples over 50, at least 55 percent of the men are eating vagina, with 95 percent of the men and 82 percent of the women enjoying it.Many guys seem to have a strange love/hate relationship with women's genitalia.


Guys that can't wait to get their cock into one are often reluctant to put their face "down there." For every guy who says he loves to eat vagina, there's another one who's squeamish. Women know this, and it affects their ability to lie back and enjoy the experience.This is for you gals. Before you can get him to eat vagina for the first time, you need to get him worked up about the idea, that is, get him to think about sex for a few minutes, but don't do anything to make him cum yet. He's got a sex switch in his brain that turns on when he sees a woman, especially a naked one, and turns off as soon as he cums, this is why who does what first can be very important in the beginning, less so as the two of you mature.


Fortunately, it won't take much to get him to eat you the first time, just undress and ask him to, let him look at your vagina for a while, show him your clit and let him play with it, promise him a good fuck afterwards or a blowjob if you've read the second section, if he seems the least bit interested straddle his head and rub your bush over his face.What's Down There?This is for you guys. Most men don't really know what they've been sticking their cock into. Many women also don't appreciate what they have, and can't understand why a man would think that it was beautiful, let alone want to put his face in it.Why would a man like to eat vagina? Most men I know who really love women and want make having sex with them a joint endeavor rather than a conquest, also like to eat vagina. They don't want to just eat her, they want to bring her to a great climax and then build her up for a fuck that neither will forget, or maybe get a good blowjob if that's what she wants to do. I think that there are two basic reasons.


First, many men want to give their woman the most sexual satisfaction they can, they enjoy pleasing her and will go to great lengths to do so, the more their woman likes what they are doing to her, the harder their cocks get until sometimes they cum just from eating her. The second is the role that the mouth, tongue, taste and smell play in sex. Why do people kiss? They receive pleasure from the interaction that takes place during a kiss. The mouth, lips and tongue are some of the more erogenous zones of the body and are active rather than passive, you do something with them. You nibble on her ears, kiss and suck on her nipples, kiss her navel, why not kiss and suck on the most sexual part of her body, her vagina. The tastes and odors of the fresh secretions from a clean healthy woman's vagina are also erotic to many men. Put this all together and your mouth in her vagina is where it's at guys.


Now that you've got your woman out of the shower, on the bed, and fairly well warmed up (or she's got you there), stop and look at what you see. Leave the lights on, or get a flashlight or something, so that you can examine her carefully. Take a good look at what's between her legs. Beautiful, isn't it? There's nothing that makes a woman more unique than her vagina. I know. I've seen plenty of them. They come in all different sizes, colors and shapes; some are tucked inside like a little girl's cunnie and some have thick luscious lips that come out to greet you. Some are nested in brushes of fur and others are covered with transparent fuzz.The first thing you see is her muff. It should be the same color as the rest of her hair but who knows these days. It has a slightly different texture than the hair on her head and can cover a large or small area but usually just up over the mons area, that fleshy mound over her pelvic bone, and down each side of her vagina to its lower end. It usually does not spread out to her thighs and has sparse growth partially onto the outer lips.Don't worry, looking at it won't make you go blind. Nestled in the midst of her muff are the outer, or major, lips of her vagina (they are vertical on all women). They are not overly sensitive to touch on the outside (but it's a good place to start), about the same as the shaft of your cock.


They extend from the upper part of the hood that covers her clit to more or less the bottom of her vagina. They're thick and luscious in the middle and thin out at each end blending into her body. Some are almost closed while others are open to varying extents, allowing the inner pleasures to peep through. They don't generally come together completely at the top, exposing the upper cone of the clitoral hood, and less so at the bottom, giving you a glimpse of the bottom of the vaginal entrance where the lower parts of the inner lips surround it.Underneath the outer lips are the inner, or minor, lips. These are much thinner, more sensitive and fun to play with. At the top they form the cone-shaped hood that protects the sensitive clit, closing in under the clit and then coming back out to continue down to the bottom of the vaginal entrance. They tend to blossom out between the outer lips, especially near the bottom.


Between the underside of the clit and the bottom of the vaginal opening lies the vestibule, your new playground. Although the clit's hood is a part of the inner lips, they appear to only cover the vestibule. The urethra and vagina open into the vestibule. Excluding the obvious first place role of the clit, it's the vestibule and the entrance to the vagina where a lot of the action takes place.I've saved the best for last, the clitoris or clit, accent on the first syllable. Most of you know it, but for those who don't, it's THE woman's sex organ, period. It may feel great to be fucked vaginally or otherwise, but if the stimulation isn't right there, on the clit, you're ignoring the place that's going to make her cum, and presumably that's why you're reading this, right? It's right there at the top juncture of her inner lips, a small knob of pink flesh. This is where it's at boys, and don't forget it. Almost any licking and sucking of the labia or vaginal entrance are going to feel just dandy; just remember that's pleasurable, teasing, not the main event.

Heavy Indian Breakfast


I like this pic very much.